Archive for August, 2014

Self confidence is a good thing. But nobody feels confident all the time. For example, we may not feel confident when we find ourselves in unfamiliar situations and developing new skills. If we are fully alive, we often find ourselves in uncharted territory. So there will certainly be times when we don’t feel confident.

When we do something new to us, we need to be bad before we can get good. Similarly, we may not start out feeling confident in situations new to us. We need to feel not confident before we feel confident. Self love is more crucial than self confidence. We need to realize that we can get through whatever we confront whether or not we feel confident.

Loving ourselves does not depend on us feeling confident, any more than it depends on us feeling good, rich, powerful, attractive or competent. We don’t love our partners, relatives and friends because they are perfect. We love them because we love them. We need to do the same for ourselves. We need self love more than self confidence.

Jess Ainscough presents her 5 Tips for Cultivating Self Love in the video below.


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Do you feel time is passing too quickly?

Here are some great things you can do in just 60 seconds.




What others can you think of?





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Will I regret not doing this thing when I’m 80 years old?

(Jeff Bezos, CEO and founder of Amazon, on his “Regret Minimization Framework”)

When we are young, it’s easy to feel we have all the time in the world. As we become a little older, reality sinks in. We realize life is short. Seventy, eighty, or ninety years is like a vanishing puff of smoke in the scheme of nature.

Because our time on this planet is short, and there are so many ways we could invest our time, we need to get our priorities straight. We need to think of who and what means the most to us and invest our time accordingly.

Is there something really important to you that you have been putting off? Are you waiting for some circumstance to arrive before you do what means the most to you? The time to do what is really important is NOW! What will you regret not doing when you’re 80?

The Rolling Stones perform “Time Waits For No One” in the video below.


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